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Safety at ZeroDate

Keep it human.
Keep it safe.

Good connections should feel respectful online and comfortable in real life.

Before you meet

Take the time you need.

Move at your own pace, keep conversations respectful, and make choices that help you feel in control.

01

Keep the first date public

Choose a busy café, bar, restaurant, or other public place. Make your own way there and home.

02

Tell someone your plan

Share who you are meeting, where you are going, and when you expect to be back.

03

Trust your instincts

You never owe anyone a reply, a date, or a second chance. Leave if something feels off.

If something feels wrong

You can always leave.

End the conversation, cancel the date, block or report someone when those tools are available, and contact local emergency services if you are in immediate danger.